Pet Loss · Grief Support “I already miss him, and he’s still here.” By Jessica Merrow · Pet Loss Grief Counselor “I already miss him, and he’s still here. Is that normal?” A client asked me this a few months ago. Her dog had been diagnosed with cancer. He was still eating, still wagging his […]
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“Where did Max go?” When my golden retriever Max passed away after twelve years together, my four-year-old niece looked up at me and asked that question with complete sincerity. I’m a pet loss grief counselor who has helped hundreds of grieving pet owners — and in that moment, I still didn’t know exactly what to
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When a friend loses a pet, most of us freeze. We want to say something — but we’re afraid of saying the wrong thing. So we say nothing at all. When my golden retriever Max passed away after twelve years together, I experienced both sides of this. Some friends reached out immediately — even just
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How long is this going to hurt? Will I ever feel normal again? These are the questions I hear most. When my golden retriever Max passed away after twelve years together, I asked them too — and I’m a pet loss grief counselor who has helped hundreds of grieving pet owners through this exact experience.
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When someone we care about loses a pet, most of us freeze. We want to say something — but the words don’t come, or the ones that do feel too small. A card, written with care, can do something a text message rarely can. It says: I took time for this. Your grief is worth
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When my golden retriever Max passed away after twelve years together, I had a full schedule the next morning. I’m a pet loss grief counselor — I’ve sat with hundreds of people through exactly this kind of pain. And even I sat at my desk that evening, completely unable to prepare. Grief doesn’t check your
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In my years working with grieving pet owners, I’ve noticed something: people don’t just want advice. They want words that match what they’re feeling — something that says yes, this is real, and you are not alone in it. Sometimes a single sentence can do what hours of conversation cannot. It can crack something open,
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When my golden retriever Max passed away after twelve years together, I found myself reaching for something I hadn’t in years — prayer. I’m a pet loss grief counselor, and even I didn’t have the words. Sometimes grief just needs somewhere to go. If you’re looking for a prayer for the death of a pet,
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The morning I lost Max, I hadn’t said goodbye. He was fine at breakfast — tail wagging, nudging my hand for an extra piece of toast. By afternoon, he was gone. No warning. No time to prepare. Just an ordinary Tuesday that became the worst day of my life. If you’re reading this, you probably
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Losing a pet is not a small kind of grief. It doesn’t feel “ordinary.”It doesn’t pass quickly.And it often goes unspoken in a world that doesn’t fully understand. Because what you lost wasn’t just an animal. If you’ve recently lost a pet, or find yourself facing the quiet, anticipatory grief of knowing that goodbye may
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